tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post8248162281805794123..comments2024-01-06T11:53:26.231+00:00Comments on Qwerty Queen: Sad All OverQueeniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06988379866736219329noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-52521741054052246862009-02-24T23:50:00.000+00:002009-02-24T23:50:00.000+00:00There's sadness and then there is delicious melanc...There's sadness and then there is delicious melancholy which I'm not averse to as one can control it and snap out of it when everyone gets bored to the back teeth.<BR/>I hope your sadness lifts soon.Pathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01529798893653033970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-25692292750057778022009-02-22T16:54:00.000+00:002009-02-22T16:54:00.000+00:00Thanks, JJ xThanks, JJ xQueeniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988379866736219329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-76206052119055645922009-02-22T14:17:00.000+00:002009-02-22T14:17:00.000+00:00Big Hugs to you Queenie.Big Hugs to you Queenie.Jenny Beattiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00640209636605410939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-13010049385555831122009-02-21T12:58:00.001+00:002009-02-21T12:58:00.001+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Queeniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988379866736219329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-5212083721427465332009-02-21T12:58:00.000+00:002009-02-21T12:58:00.000+00:00Leigh, thank you, and you're right. Hang in there...Leigh, thank you, and you're right. Hang in there, honey.<BR/>Carol, I'm waving back, and thanks for the explanation!Queeniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988379866736219329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-48224752922292484932009-02-21T08:24:00.000+00:002009-02-21T08:24:00.000+00:00Hehehe....no need to thank!! It's Carol that comme...Hehehe....no need to thank!! <BR/><BR/>It's Carol that comments and blogs *waves Hi* but I blog about both Chris and I so couldn't really leave him out!!<BR/><BR/>C xCarolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12327016337976942530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-29098595796465858522009-02-21T08:12:00.000+00:002009-02-21T08:12:00.000+00:00Big hugs, Q. I know it doesn't really help, but re...Big hugs, Q. I know it doesn't really help, but remember that the time of year doesn't help. Notice that the mornings are getting lighter, and we had a definite hint of spring last week - hope it reaches you soon. I'm hanging on by my fingernails.Leigh Forbeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01651812577518625326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-58265582873721214562009-02-21T08:01:00.000+00:002009-02-21T08:01:00.000+00:00Goodness, I feel like a proper blogger now, I didn...Goodness, I feel like a proper blogger now, I didn't know I had a lurker (which I suppose is the point). But I'm confused now, which C should I thank?Queeniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988379866736219329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-57023015123337436022009-02-21T06:53:00.000+00:002009-02-21T06:53:00.000+00:00I've decided to de-lurk....I just wanted to say th...I've decided to de-lurk....I just wanted to say that I'm sorry your feeling sad and I hope that it passes soon.<BR/><BR/>C xCarolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12327016337976942530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-74986031279092016332009-02-20T18:23:00.000+00:002009-02-20T18:23:00.000+00:00Thanks, Helen; you're spot on.Clare, it was in an ...Thanks, Helen; you're spot on.<BR/>Clare, it was in an earlier comment thread. Jumbly Girl has also done a month off the booze and said she had to face up to some Horrible Truths in the process. She didn't say what they were. I think you're dead right about the giving permission thing. And thanks for the hugs.<BR/>Kirsty, that's a good suggestion, thank you. I'm looking forward to my glass of wine next weekend!Queeniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988379866736219329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-82305065003729830502009-02-20T17:31:00.000+00:002009-02-20T17:31:00.000+00:00Clare of course has put it beautifully. I wonder i...Clare of course has put it beautifully. <BR/><BR/>I wonder if its worth going for the little and more frequent approach to dealing with the sad? (speaking as someone who can really relate to what you are saying) So feel it, then do something nice for yourself - good book, if you are avoiding cake then an indulgent mango or something? <BR/><BR/>Thinking of you xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-82236108297611765812009-02-20T16:31:00.000+00:002009-02-20T16:31:00.000+00:00Aw Queenie, many many {{{HUGS}}}. There seems to b...Aw Queenie, many many {{{HUGS}}}. There seems to be a rash of this at the moment. Everywhere I go on the internet, people are dishing out hugs to one another. Is it something to do with the time of year, maybe?<BR/><BR/>I'm intrigued by these Horrible Truths though. What are they? What's the context?<BR/><BR/>I can see it must be hard for a typically-sunny person such as yourself to do The Sadness Thing, but one of the important truths about sadness is that it always passes. Even writing about it may help it to lift. And there are of course those blessings you mentioned, which are indeed worth counting. But maybe you also need to give yourself permission to be sad. Doesn't mean you have to wallow in it or enjoy it, just that little "Go on then - you're allowed to do this every now and then, and the world won't fall apart" may help.<BR/><BR/>And, um... oh. Not even one tiny little chocolate?<BR/><BR/>OK then, how about a romantic feel-good movie or book? Or a comedy night, funny film, re-reading an old favourite like e.g. some Herriot books (always make me laugh)?<BR/><BR/>But in the meantime, more {{{HUGS}}} and a few tickles for good measure.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7461550018707850575.post-34026856206296610702009-02-20T11:23:00.000+00:002009-02-20T11:23:00.000+00:00Hugs Honey. Sounds like you're still a happy pers...Hugs Honey. Sounds like you're still a happy person - just with sad things happening to you xxx When I feel like this I just tell myself,'this is not my life, it's just something that's happening at the moment.HelenMWaltershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16182100572365505905noreply@blogger.com